What do you see when you look in the mirror? The image you are projecting is likely not what everyone else is seeing. When we look at ourselves, our minds eye adds in all the little extras that we know about ourselves, the history, the insecurities, the sadness or happiness, the comments someone may have made to you, whether positive or negative, the amount of times you got to the gym, what you ate, what you may have drank. You see the blemishes, the wrinkles, the few gray hairs, maybe the dark circles under your eyes or the puffiness from last night. Are you disappointed? Are you depressed? Or are you satisfied with what you see, baggage and all? Be honest, its just you that you are conferring with.
There are many ways to fix what’s going on with your reflection. The seemingly obvious place to start, is the gym. If you could just work out a little more often, a little more intensely, maybe even hire a personal trainer to push you toward your goal. If you could just cut out some of the bad habits and channel that energy and budget into doing something for your body that could really make a difference. Well, here’s a shocker, coming from me, a gym owner: the gym is not the answer…. At least, this is not the reason why you should be coming to the gym. Fixing only the outside will do nothing for you long term.
The way to really fix what’s going on in that evil piece of glass, has to start with honesty. Most of the ugliness you see is only in your mind, but when you are drowning in your own KoolAid, it doesn’t take long for others to see you that way as well. Change the way you perceive yourself, and others will follow.
· Admit that we all have flaws. Who cares? Are you a better or worse person because you have a blemish on your chin?
· Recognize that there is limited time in the day. Vow to organize and prioritize your days a little better in order to reduce stress.
· Make sleep a priority. When we are tired, we look terrible and become very pessimistic about our outlook.
· Clear your conscience. Have you wronged someone and the thought looms over you every day? Are you leading a truthful life? Coming clean will do wonders for the way you view yourself.
· Become a giver. Participate in something that benefits others, whether its your community, the animal shelter, the local school, library, or a friend in need. Build up your arsenal of good karma.
· Exercise! The rush of endorphins will leave you feeling refreshed and ready to tackle the rest of the day. You will sleep better, improve your attitude, and feel accomplished.
Taking an honest look at ourselves and being satisfied with who we are, not the way we look, is the only way to presenting a beautiful, complete package. The best thing, is you don’t have to wait until New Years, your birthday, or the beginning of next month to get started. You can do it today, you can do it NOW. Go take a look in the mirror…. What do you see?
Andrea Shelby
Owner Federal Hill Fitness / MV Fitness









